As seen on Bayou Buzz
I be wed--"Quickie Wedding" for La.
Author: Melissa Fertitta
They call him the marrying
man, but the Reverend Tony Talavera is a one-woman man.
What the proverbial
they are referring to is purely occupational. Talavera is the director of the
French Quarter Wedding Chapel and Bourbon Streets Weddings-A-Go-Go.
An officiate of the
California-based Universal Life Church, Talavera has performed thousands of weddings and
recently breached the separation of church and state by championing a bit of legislation
known as the Quickie Weddings.
Bill
SB565, which was written by representative Paulette Irons, allows non-Louisiana
residents to waive the three-day waiting period. In essence, a couple could get their
marriage license at lunch and be married by dinner.
But Talavera doesnt
want it to work that quickly.
The wedding industry
represents $60 billion in revenue in the U.S., Talavera said. Vegas, Clark
County, sold 120,000 licenses in 2002, thats six million in direct revenue. You
start adding up dinners and hotels and the state and (local) businesses benefit.
Talavera says that though
Vegas has been long associated with on-the-fly nuptials, New Orleans has more to offer,
even though the city has yet to recognize it. We have true romance, were real.
We dont tear down and rebuild every 10 or 15 years (like Vegas).
There should be one
to two billion dollars a year coming here. This industry will help everybody from the
state to cab drivers. Everyone benefits.
And in theory, everyone
would benefit. Talavera performs ceremonies on riverboats, in local courtyards; he
organizes catering from local restaurants. Colette Guste at Antoines, who has worked
closely with Talavera on several weddings, is now helping him establish the New Orleans
Wedding Association. Well be a force to be reckoned with, Talavera said.
Though Talavera is excited
about the economic impact the wedding industry could have for the city, he is not driven
by greed. Im sincere in what I do, he said. I always give some
advice (to the couples). I tell them communication will make or break a relationship. I
tell them to never let your head hit the pillow mad even if it takes till sunrise.
Talavera also gives his
business card to couples, to be used day or night, because he truly believes that if a
phone call will save a relationship, hes willing to answer to remind couples that
honeymoons are never over, people just forget
that youre not one and
one; together youre one. Its you against the world.
But making New Orleans a
destination wedding hot-spot might pit Talavera against the world. But its a task
hes taken to heart. Were the true romantic spot for weddings.
Girls Gone Wild is fine for three blocks on Bourbon Street, but we have the
rest of the quarter to be romantic, he stresses.
Were closer to
more people than Vegas (and) people look for a reason to come to New Orleans.
Thats
exactly what Talavera hopes to stress at an assembly of the New Orleans Wedding
Associations first meeting next month. Be prepared because youre going to be busy 52 weeks a year, he
warns. I never realized it until I researched it; weve been out of a loop on
what we could have been doing. (Lets) bring people together and everyone makes
money. |